Believe in yourself

As people, it is understandable that people are going to doubt your abilities but you have to push through and persevere. If you let the negativity get to you then you're not going allow yourself to grow and achieve to be great. If you think about it if your favorite celebrity or a person that inspires you they have faced a whole lot of adversity in their lives and they kept persevering and now they are the big icons that there are. Long story short if you want to be the best athlete or best anything there is you have to work hard and put in the time and have the mindset that you can achieve anything. Be confident in yourself and believe that you can do anything that you want!
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Mel
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Life's wild ride

"You can't stop the waves but you can learn to surf." Jon Kanat-Zinn

In life, it always seems like there is something always popping up and coming in the way, but that doesn't mean we always have to let it discourage us. We have to learn to deal with the challenging times and just keep going, I mean obviously it isn't that easy but we can try to just ride the rollercoaster that life can be and take it step by step. If you just break down the things you have to do and take them one step at a time it won't feel like there is so much to do, and you'll be surprised at all the things you get done.
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Mel

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Dreams

Everyone has dreams that they want to accomplish, and sometimes we doubt that we can reach them due to set backs and upsets. Sometimes you might even feel alone because no one believes that you can achieve this dream that you have. But when you feel like no one believes in you, that's when you must push the hardest to believe in yourself and persevere until you accomplish your dream. Not everyone will see the vision you have for yourself, but you must believe in it and protect your vision; because when you get distracted someone will make your vision a reality.
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Mel

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Can your inspiration really be your motivation?

Everyone has something that inspires them whether that be a person, song, words or something that has a personal meaning. But could that same thing that inspires you; be your motivation to do something bigger than what you're already doing? I say yes, and here's the reason why. If you have something that keeps your focused (your inspiration) then I say that could definitely push you into being exactly the person you want to become. Think about it this way, has someone ever given you a compliment? Hopefully, you answered yes, and after that compliment, you start to think positively because all of a sudden someone has said something kind to you. After that, you are put into a good mood because someone has just made you feel great. It's the same thing with your inspiration this is what makes you feel good so when you are feeling down and think I can't do this anymore, something clicks in your head and that's your inspiration telling you to keep going. Therefore your inspiration is motivating you to keep going because whatever road you take in life will not be easy but it is worth the journey.
"My mission in life is not to merely survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor and some style." - Maya Angelou

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Frustration

Everyone deals with frustration day in and out. Some people either explode under the pressure or they never let someone get under their skin. But the question is how long can you be frustrated and not respond? It's a matter of being the bigger person in various situations and I know of course easier said than done, right? No wrong, I believe if given the opportunity to step back from the situation and analyze all points of view you might learn something about that situation. Most individuals want to be right in this particular instance, but maybe think wow maybe I'm wrong and this other person could be right about their reasoning. Today looking through social media I saw a post from an account saying be a bottle of water and not a bottle of soda. The person behind those words explained that when you shake a bottle of soda and then you finally open the cap it explodes because of that built up pressure; but when you shake a bottle of water and then open the cap the water has settled back to its original state before it was opened. Therefore, even though we all have our bottle of soda moments we have to push ourselves to be that bottle of water by keeping our emotions calm and not always feel the need to explode.

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Welcome

Hello All,
My name is Melissa Solomon, I am currently a college student at Quinnipiac University. At the age of eight years old I won an essay contest and got to meet the Governor of Massachusetts, Deval Patrick, and other State House Representatives. The article is called Lobbying at Age 8, it was a great experience. I have been constantly thinking about the idea of writing but now I believe it is the perfect time to voice my witty humor. I just wanted to create this blog to voice my feelings how trends in the media and real situations affecting people all throughout the world. The concept black and white is to get just true and honest opinions from me and to just show the plain and simple breakdown of my thoughts on popular ideas today in the media. The idea is to portray this clear cut view of how I breakdown information. Thus portraying this "black and white" concept of my thoughts. I just want to throw out fun topics that are interesting to various types of people. Thanks for checking this out! Feel free to comment and subscribe!
- Mel